Your influence with a Kingdom purpose
I ran across a graphic last week as I was preparing to teach a Bible study about the prophet Daniel and the influence he had on those around him. The graphic caught my eye, and I later learned that it reflected a current model widely taught in business circles. The graphic illustrates the process by which we can focus and improve our ability to influence others.
The graphic noted three circles we should use to separate and qualify the various experiences or relationships in our lives. The first and widest circle is the circle of concern, defined as those circumstances in our lives, including other people’s choices, that we cannot control. The second circle was the circle of influence, which comprises of those circumstances and relationships we have the opportunity to influence. The final, smallest circle, is the circle of control. Those are the areas where we actually provide influence in ways that cause or control final outcomes.
Oxford University described the point of the research saying, “The Circles of Influence concept, developed by Stephen Covey, can help you recognize which things you can influence and control, and which you can’t, even though they may impact on you. ‘Proactive people….work on things they can do something about.’”
The secular study has spiritual application for Christians. If we want to be proactive with our faith, we should focus on the influence we have on the people in our lives. For example, we should care about enacting laws that support biblical truth. But realistically, how many of us will be involved in the actual legislation of those laws? Our ability to influence a law is likely limited to a few conversations on the subject and a single vote on election day.
The Circles of Influence concept encourages us to focus more of our energy on our circles of influence and control. When was the last time you considered how you invest your time and efforts in those two most important circles of life and ministry?
All riled up with no place to go
Forbes magazine published an article about watching television news during the COVID-19 concerns of 2020. The article said, “In general, the more hours someone spent watching the news, the higher levels of fear they had.” The article went on to say that “watching negative news has been associated with sadness, worries, anxiety, and increase in negative affect. In disaster media specifically, we know that increasing exposure to media is associated with alcohol use, tobacco use, insomnia, depression, and post-traumatic symptoms, according to Dr. Joshua Morganstein, Chair of the American Psychiatric Association’s Committee.”
I’ve been told that part of my concussion protocol is to cut down on my screen time. In full confession, I haven’t been a very good patient. I work for an online ministry. Screens are difficult to avoid! I have noticed, however, that what I want to watch and listen to has been influenced by my bruised brain just a bit. I’ve turned off some of the loud conversations that the news media have used to “grab people’s attention.” The noise, the angst, and the vitriol are good for ratings but not good for our lives. We get all riled up about things we can’t control, and there is nowhere to go with our feelings. It’s actually been relaxing in some ways to have a minor concussion and need to avoid some of that!
Television news is simply another form of TV entertainment. Walter Conkrite would struggle to be successful or popular as a broadcaster in today’s ratings war. Much of the news we view on our televisions will fall into that first circle of concern. We can see what is happening, but we have very little we can do to influence or control an outcome. Stephen Covey would suggest we limit our time involvement with that circle of concern.
Jesus told his followers, “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 5:14–16).
What would happen if Christians were to take Covey’s advice and follow Jesus’ teaching? God’s people should be aware of what and who they have been called to influence and spend more of their time and energies working in those places. We are called to focus on the people and the circumstances the Spirit guides us toward. If we are not focused on his leadership in our lives, we can be easily distracted by those things that we have no actual way to influence or change.
Who around us will observe or be impacted by the light of Christ in our personal witness? Do we spend more of our time discussing the topics and choices we cannot control or those we can and should control? Jesus said, “Therefore render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and to God the things that are God’s” (Matthew 22:21). Could it be that Jesus was teaching us about more than our money?
We are the light of the world. When people see our lives, they should be drawn to the greatness and glory of our God because of our words and our choices. Our influence should be focused on an eternal purpose more than on an earthly opportunity.
We can strengthen our Christian influence
G.K. Chesterton said, “The books that influence the world are those that it has not read.” I think there is a lot of wisdom in those words. The reason I am passionate about teaching the Bible is that I have found the wisdom of God’s word to be my greatest help in life. I want to encourage people to read that Book.
The world is filled with people, ideas, and values that shape our thoughts daily. Our lives are consistently bombarded with sights and sounds via screens. G.K. Chesterton’s statement made me realize that the Bible cannot fully influence people unless they read it for themselves. We can share God’s word, but there is nothing more powerful than reading Scripture and hearing God’s Spirit speak to our thoughts from the pages. How can we influence others to read the Bible for themselves?
We can strengthen our personal Christian influence if we strengthen our thoughts with the truth of God’s word. Are your words of influence authored by God’s truth or by something less? Paul was teaching this point to the early Christians when he told them, “You were running well. Who hindered you from obeying the truth? This persuasion is not from him who calls you. A little leaven leavens the whole lump” (Galatians 5:7–9).
Whenever we are not fully “persuaded” by the truth of God’s Word, we are being persuaded by the lies of something less. And a little of the world’s influence can impact our entire witness.
Billy Graham said, “God will never lead contrary to His word—so get acquainted with the Word of God, the Bible. Pray. He leads through the illumination of the Holy Spirit in our hearts. Use whatever you have and be faithful. We are called to serve Christ in our sphere of influence.”
Some of our most interesting conversations are centered around the things in this world that we cannot control or influence. Those topics are compelling and entertaining. It’s just important to remember that our most important influential conversations will be focused on the biblical truth that can have an eternal impact on a person’s life.
Do you need to adjust your focus and spend more energy in your circles of influence and control? I know I want to do that. Let’s pray that we will become influencers who have a Kingdom purpose. God would love to answer those prayers!










