Embracing life in sensible shoes
“Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching.” —2 Timothy 4:2
There comes a time in life when style can’t compete with comfort. I’m 67 years old, and according to AI, I’ve likely taken 183,534,375 steps in my lifetime. It is time I reward my feet for carrying me through life by providing them with arch support and a firm connection to the ground beneath me. I still enjoy looking at ads for pretty shoes, but when it’s time to buy a new pair, I check the box marked “comfort shoes.” This season of sensible shoes is also the season of enjoying the common-sense wisdom that 67 years has provided.
I am older, but I have never known this level of peace, quiet, and joy in my life. I want to embrace this season of life and enjoy my sensible shoes.
Celebrating 46 years of marriage this week
Jim and I were married two weeks after we graduated from college. We had a three-day honeymoon in San Antonio, came home, packed our meager possessions in a small U-Haul, and drove to our duplex in Arlington, TX. The next seven years were spent living close to the seminary so Jim could get his PhD and I could get my PhT…(Putting husband THROUGH!). During that time, we pastored one church, had our two boys, and then moved to Midland, Texas, to pastor there.
We have lived a BUSY, full life for these forty-six years, and now we are enjoying our less busy, peaceful season of life in Tyler, Texas. People sometimes ask us when we plan to retire, and our only answer is, “When Jesus tells us to!” We love our life, our ministry, and we still love each other. Life together as husband and wife continues to be my greatest blessing on earth.
Happy Anniversary, Jim! As the song lyric says, “You’re Still the One.”
Adapting to the changes
In each church we pastored, I’ve been blessed to know, appreciate, and grow to love people who were older and wiser. We were able to attend church functions that were designed for our “senior adults.” In every church I noticed and can still name the senior adults who made me think, “I want to be them when I get older.”
I still remember the Sunday morning that Jim and I looked at the announcements and then at each other because we realized the announcement was for US! It’s strange to realize we are safely in the final quarter of our lives, our marriage, and our journey to heaven. It isn’t sad or scary because we both know where we are going. Heaven is mostly an unknown, but we know it is going to be eternal joy, peace, safety, happiness, and reward. I can’t wait to give Jesus my praise and gratitude face-to-face.
I love the song I Can Only Imagine by MercyMe. When I consider the chorus of that song, I realize that I will likely dance with joy the day I get to see my Lord and Savior face-to-face. Until then, I pray that Jim and I can adapt to each change life brings with the same joy we will feel when we see Jesus that day. I hope we DANCE our way to the gates of heaven, together! I hope my mansion in glory has a wide array of beautiful shoes in the closet, none of which bother my feet at all. Who knows, maybe we will walk those streets of gold in bare feet, never needing shoes again.
We will need to adapt to the changes this earthly life brings until our earthly lives are done. But I bet if you read my article each week, you will dance your way into heaven too. Life with Jesus is the only way to live this season of sensible shoes.
Words from a saint who grew old
The New Testament doesn’t have many quotes from the elderly. John was the only apostle we think died a natural death. I love the book of Revelation for many reasons. It’s the only book in the Bible that promises a blessing to those who will read it. Revelation 1:3 says, “Blessed is the one who reads aloud the words of this prophecy, and blessed are those who hear, and who keep what is written in it, for the time is near.”
That verse has troubled Christians who focus on the phrase, “for the time is near.” It’s been more than two thousand years since John wrote down those words Jesus spoke to him. It is Scripture, therefore it has to be pure, complete truth! I read that passage differently now that I am older. We know that with God, a day is like a thousand years and a thousand years is like a day. (2 Peter 3:8)
There is a phrase that most senior adults have said about their lifetimes, with a sense of wonder in their voice. Almost all have said, “Wow…how did we get here so fast!” Jesus told an elderly John, “The time is near.” John was imprisoned on the island of Patmos, not knowing what the next day would bring. When Jesus told him the time was near, those were words of encouragement intended to bring his beloved apostle joy.
There is another reason why the verse above is one of my favorites. Jesus said, “Blessed is the one who reads aloud the words,” and “blessed are those who hear, and who keep what is written in it.” How long has it been since you sat and read aloud the words of Revelation? We need to read those words, especially as we age, and share them aloud with others. Don’t worry about the passages you don’t understand. Do focus on and share the verses that you DO understand. Those words were encouragement to the apostle John, who was elderly and living a very difficult season of his life on Patmos. Jesus encouraged his friend, and his words can encourage us! In fact, his words promise to bless those who will read and share them with others.
But we also need to “keep what is written” in the book of Revelation. Revelation is the book designed for the fourth quarter of life. We don’t need to know when Jesus will return for the final time, but we do need to take notice of the people around us who don’t have the hope of heaven that Revelation has promised to Christians. We need to share that hope “out loud” and often with people, and live now with the hope and joy we look forward to.
Shout joy to those around you
I have a wonderful life, and I’m living it with a wonderful man who is “still the one!” I feel like a blessed person almost every day of my life. It is a joy and a blessing to grow older and hopefully wiser. Senior adults have the opportunity to be the people, the married couple, the mature witnesses for those who are younger. We should look for opportunities to share the hope and truth of the Revelation with others.
When Jim and I were on our honeymoon in San Antonio, we saw an older couple holding hands while walking on the Riverwalk. Forty-six years ago, I said to Jim, “That’s who I want us to be when we get older.” I’m smiling now and realizing we are likely older than that couple was in 1980!
I often think of June as the beginning of the summer season. How long has it been since you read the Revelation? The NIV study notes are the best help for the parts you don’t understand. The Holy Spirit is your best teacher as you read. Most importantly, this book has promised to bless us for reading its words, sharing its lessons, and obeying them with joy.
Are you hoping to have a blessed summer? Jesus and the apostle John would love to help. This season of sensible shoes has a lot to offer us. If we live it well, we will have a lot to offer the generations that will follow. If you are younger, watch for the joyful Christians who pass you wearing sensible shoes. Wisdom is a powerful goal, and most wisdom comes with age. Christians can live with John’s blessings and joy if we read and obey the wisdom in John’s Revelation from Jesus.
Wishing you a summer of blessing as you wear those comfort sandals and walk with joy!










