Changing our changes

One of my favorite things about God is that he is unchanging. 

James said, “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change” (James 1:17). 

When I read my Bible, I am reading the same message my ancestors would have read, albeit in a different version. I’m a fan of consistency, loyalty, and “standing firm” in almost every aspect of life. 

(That sounds a lot better than stubborn and immovable, doesn’t it?)

It was time to make a change

I have to admit, I tend to remain loyal to people, routines, and companies for a long time. 

Jim and I got married in 1980 and put our deposit down with a phone company. That company was purchased by another, but we stayed the course. The only time I didn’t pay a monthly bill to this company was for the years we lived in Georgia. As soon as we moved back to Texas, I signed us up again. When cell phones became the norm, I used that same company. 

But, I’m about to retire a cellular family plan that was established before the flip phone! In fact, my first cell phone required an antenna that had to be pulled up. 

Why am I making this change after such a long time? 

Because I’m just not satisfied with that company any longer. I’ve been patient and loyal, and I’ve stood firm, but recently I’ve been asking myself: Why? 

So, I decided that sometimes a person just has to change the changes. 

Should we blame change on Adam and Eve

One of the most consistent themes of Scripture is change. In fact, I think change was one of the most profound results of getting kicked out of the Garden. 

(Note: the following is somewhat “speculative.”)  

I just left a long, interesting conversation with my theologian husband. 

When the conversation concluded, he said, “I’ve never had that thought before. And I’ve never heard of anyone else who said it either.” 

So, take the following for what it is: my random thinking that maybe we should think about. 

The question I posed to my husband was: “Was change a result of Adam and Eve’s sin?” 

I kind of thought it was. Why? 

  • Adam and Eve walked around without clothing. Therefore, seasons were probably not part of the Garden.
  • Adam and Eve were able to eat of all the fruit, except for that one. So, planting, pruning, and watering weren’t necessary.
  • The animals were created and named and lived peacefully around them.
  • The only “rule” God had to explain was about the forbidden fruit.
  • The first apparent change was after Adam had sinned and he and Eve felt shame. 
  • The Bible records a LOT of changes that took place after that.

Jim and I talked about this idea for a while, and he had to agree. 

We can’t prove it theologically because the Bible doesn’t say—but it certainly seems so. 

Should we change what we think about changes?

If change occurred as a result of the fall, should we think about change a bit differently? 

Most of us try to limit change, yet think about all the benefits. 

My phone fits in my purse or pocket now and has far more capabilities than my old computer and phone combined. Changing to a newer phone is an easy choice to make because it makes life easier. 

Some changes are more difficult. 

I recently visited the dermatologist. Apparently, I can make some great changes, but one of the greatest changes would be to my bank account! I’ve decided not to change those changes—at least not yet! 

None of those changes would need changing if Adam and Eve had listened to God. 

Maybe we need to accept change like we accept aging. It’s inevitable, but we try to change those changes sometimes.

Will there be change in heaven?

I don’t know if heaven will change, but I don’t think so. 

I know that one day everyone who will ever exist in heaven will be there. Revelation 21:4 says, “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”  

Is change one of the “former things” that will pass away when Christ returns? 

Heaven will be a place where we can blissfully count on everything and everyone to be absolute perfection.

Looking forward to the biggest and best change of our lives

Paul wrote about the most important change that will ever occur in this world: “Behold! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed. For this perishable body must put on the imperishable, and this mortal body must put on immortality. When the perishable puts on the imperishable, and the mortal puts on immortality, then shall come to pass the saying that is written: ‘Death is swallowed up in victory’” (1 Corinthians 15:51–54). 

In the meantime, I will change the changes I can change and work to accept the changes I can’t change. But I will do it all with the hope that one day we will all be “changed,” and all the changes will be forever changed by the One who never changes. 

So, how did these thoughts about change, change your thoughts today?

Life Changes

Life Changes” is the title track on Thomas Rhett’s new album and a perfect intro for this blog post. I saw Rhett perform it on ABC’s CMA Fest and knew I wanted to know more about him. I’m not a huge country music fan, but I like some of the songs, and this one especially caught my attention. I listened to the lyrics and thought, This guy is a Christian! And that turned out to be true. You might enjoy listening to his song too.

In the last stanza, he talks about adopting a child from Uganda. During the adoption process, his wife found out she was pregnant. They have two little girls under the age of two. Their story is the subject of the song “Life Changes.”

Rhett met his wife, Lauren, in the first grade, and they married right out of college. He and Lauren did an interview for the university he attended and said they truly believe that they have been given this platform for more than just entertaining and writing hit songs. The couple said, “No matter what, [we] are extremely grateful for this journey that God has [us] on in the music industry.” Their lives are crazy right now with an album launch, two little girls, and all the other details of life. The chorus of the song says it well:

Ain’t it funny how life changes
You wake up ain’t nothing the same and life changes
You can’t stop it just hop on the train
You never know what’s gonna happen
You make your plans and you hear God laughing

Life changes, and I wouldn’t change it for the world, the world, oh no
And I wouldn’t change it for the world, the world, oh no”

Life does change. When I married Jim, I thought I would be a professor’s wife. Then he became a pastor and I hoped I would make a good pastor’s wife. (That is a story for a different blog post!) Then, Jim felt called to leave his really BIG church and begin this ministry . . . in the middle of an economic recession and with two sons still in college and graduate school. Life changes—and so did the color of my hair. (Well . . . at least the roots.)

As Jim’s wife, I have been a real estate agent, a church secretary, a second-grade schoolteacher, a stay-at-home mom, a stay-at-home mom / pastor’s wife / Sunday School teacher / Bible study leader / author / speaker, and now I am a JanetDenison.org blogger / Bible study teacher / speaker / ChristianParenting.org brand manager and, because life changes . . . an occasional podcaster.

Life changes and so does this ministry. God continues to grow it, and I want to invite you to the next “life change” for ChristianParenting.org. Cynthia Yanof has been a huge blessing to this ministry, and she has started “Pardon the Mess,” the new podcast of ChristianParenting.org and it’s as real, raw, and heartfelt as it sounds. We want to invite you into an honest conversation about the challenges and joys of parenting so you can see you’re not alone, no matter what you, your kids, your grandkids or someone you know are going through. She has already recorded several episodes, and you will hear her interview people like Mike Singletary, Michael W. Smith, Chip Waggoner, Kay Wyma, and even a teacher / pastor’s wife / blogger: me. We have a couple episodes ready for you to hear now and more standing in the lineup. (Rumor has it she will be interviewing Joni Eareckson Tada in the fall.) Sign up to be notified when a new ‘Pardon the Mess’ podcast goes out.

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